I hate vegetables too. >_> My mom gives me hell about it but they just don't taste like anything to me ever. I like a salad but that's because I go into it with the expectation of lettuce. I don't much like mixing veggies in with my meat even if the vegetables pick up the flavour because then I have meat-flavoured something-that-has-a-weird-non-meat-texture. Blegh. I wish I could magically like vegetables, but I don't. :/ Outside of salads and eating green peppers as a snack item, I tend to avoid them. So you are not alone! XD

I don't remember if you said you liked spicy food or not. :o I am super picky about chicken, so when I make it I tend to make a sauce. I love spicy food so I use some butter and hot sauce to make a good buffalo sauce to roll them in. Actually, a variation on that I've made is to dice up the chicken breast, coat it in the sauce, and then make it into a wrap with a little bit of shredded lettuce for crunch. It was so derp quick and easy that even I could handle it. XD

Squall also has a sauce he makes when he doesn't want to eat my spicy stuff that uses a smokey BBQ base. I like chicken because you can dress it up a bunch of ways. So maybe exploring sauces will make dinner more exciting for you!

I also get what you mean with the cat situation. I kind of feel like that about our dog right now. He's really Squall's dog, so while I like him, I don't really feel love for him yet. He's kind of a dog that lives in my house right now because we really haven't bonded, even when he sleeps in the bed. :\ I think it will definitely be better for you now that she's warming up to you. Yaaay! :D