hmm so thats what happened =\
sorry to hear that...
im glad Ead didnt lose his cluster, atleast you guys can go for it sometime when you have a decent group.
and yeah.. losing exp sucks especially in situations like this (dying cause of the inexperience of others... inexperience being a nice word for it, i would use something else here but >.> dont think i should)
but hey look at it this way, be glad Ead didnt lose his cluster, and im sure that even tho you lost and died, you still learned something from it (even if its just not to go all out with nin tanks, or not to do this kinda stuff with a random group)
losing exp sucks, but hey atleast you'll be able to get it back

just log off for a while, get a drink, get something to eat and just take your time to relax and cool off
trust me, if you think of this in a couple of weeks, you'll be laughing about it