I do not like a lot of the WoW playerbase

[thistlechaser]

I was going to post this on Dear_Gnome, but I don't think I can take the flaming (if it came to that) today.

As I mentioned, I've been doing a lot of PvP lately. As happened last time I threw myself into it, it's making me hate the game and the players of it. Part of it is my own fault, but part of it is not.

I do Tol Barad as often as I can. When the queue is kind to me, I do it a bunch of times on a weekday and many times on a weekend. As Horde wins 90% or more, Alliance doesn't queue as much, so fewer Horde people can get in. This evening, after three times not being called to battle, I got in.

Unsurprisingly, the battle was very one-sided. I'm not sure why, since the game keeps the numbers about even. Why are Alliance doing so poorly? I don't know. It wasn't always like this, I remember when they won more than they lost. Not everyone who fights in TB does.

Tonight was worse than usual, people insulting Alliance in /raid chat. I made the same mistake I always do: I spoke up against it. I pointed out that keeping trying when you lose a lot means something, but I got shouted down. Over and over I tried to point out how easy it is to show up and fight when you win all the time, but no one wanted to hear it.

This is my issue (only worse) in other BGs. When someone uses "gay" wrong or "tard" or whatever, I bite my tongue so hard, but I can't stay quite. If I'd just keep my mouth shut it would be less stressful, but I always have (misplaced) hope that at least one person will listen and learn. (Why would they, when the whole PvP culture says it's okay to "rape" the other team?)

I'm tired and I'm depressed. These aren't just characters run by a computer, these are people who are out there walking the streets. They're not all kids, either. How many adults playing thing it's okay to call other players a "bunch of tards"?

PvP can be fun, it IS fun, it would be just as fun without the stupid insults. I understand (fully understand!) that IC is different, but these people have to know that the people sitting behind the keyboard on Alliance side are the same as them.

I'm just so sad and depressed and hurt that people think this is acceptable.

To quote the late Rodney King, can't we all just get along? At least OOCly?

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[voidmagus.livejournal.com]

According to my wife, who a year ago worked as a counselor and caretaker for adult day care, the PC term is "M.R." (notably this term only applies to the people who are just slower on the take than the average adult would be-- if the problem is due to injury or involves some sort of incapacity, there were different terms).

Admittedly, there are a scant few times I've used 'retarded' in a derogatory fashion. The word meant 'slow', and getting frustrated with someone for being very very slow to learn a simple thing...the word fit, in my opinion (note - I asked them to 'stop being retarded', which has a very different sound than "hurr derp 'tard"). I don't feel bad about using it that way, but I have to be very frustrated before I reach that point.

Honestly though? This is what is slowly killing online gaming for me. I loved the gameplay of TERA...but the people there are as bad if not worse than I ever saw in WoW (TERA's chatfilth is mostly of a paedophilic nature, just for extra creepiness). Diablo 3 public games are exactly as bad as WoW. Battlefield3...a game I absolutely adored...*shudder* I feel like I needed to track people down with a big bottle of liquid soap and start washing out mouths. Don't get me wrong, I curse. Profusely, with a range of volumes and eloquence. But some of the shit I hear in FPS multiplayer makes the worst neonazi hate speech sound like a children's book.

I miss the community of FFXI. I could never find something like it in WoW, which is why I play WoW for a bit then leave again. EVE had great pockets of people, but the game felt like playing with spreadsheets with space in the background. Maybe with the 2.0 patch FFXIV will be worth playing.

[thistle-chaser.livejournal.com]

Honestly though? This is what is slowly killing online gaming for me.

While driving the other day, I thought about how much more fun PvP would be if I controlled my side myself. I say where each character goes, what they do, who they fight/heal. It would work a lot better and we'd have more success.

It was at that point that I started wondering if offline gaming would be a better fit for me. :P

[veloxe.livejournal.com]

Oh ya, I play CoD (and some Battlefield here and there) so there are times when I am stringing together words in ways I didn't think was possible before. I think I made it about half an hour in TERA before I realized that the general/LFG chat was basically turning into WoW chat so I pretty much left every channel and just play talking to friends or listening to music. I instantly mute everyone who has a mic when I go into CoD lobbies and if I can't do it before the match starts then I just take my headset off since I can't even stand the 5 seconds it takes to load the map of hearing those people anymore. Haven't gone into any D3 public games and I don't plan to, I'm satisfied just playing with buddies randomly.

Something has gone horrible wrong when everyone is going "Connectivity, connectivity! Connect your facebook to your twitter to your tumbler so everyone knows ever kill you get!" and I just sit there thinking "Yes but why would I choose to interact with the people on the internet in my time off?"

I decided I wanted to play one of the Minecraft mod packs that's more based on online play and I spent about 2 hours looking over threads advertising servers. Trying to piece together the kind of people in each server and trying to find a decently small one that still had an active community. After I found one I spent another 2 hours doing other things and I would occasionally flip back to the page and think about if I even wanted to try it. It's very sad that it's gotten to the point where I will forgo the potential of finding nice, fun people online just to avoid the bad ones.