Ask and ye shall receive... a spanking!

[thistlechaser]

For those who left comments asking for the URL (and for those who asked privately), I poked through Google and found the submissive chick's blog.

Starts here.

For those of you who wanted it for the research, I'd suggest starting with where the link takes you, the beginning of the blog. More info and details there than later, I believe (I skimmed her newest entries to see if it was the right person's).

I think one of her entries had a link to the master -- Jesse, I learned his name was. (Totally chance, Chia!) I haven't found it yet, but if I do I'll edit this post.

Happy reading!

Oh, and today's poem to milkthistle. She had said of my last one: "Trying to woo me with poetry, are you? Well, it's working ;) *runs away, but not really*".

My reply:
Tasty Milkthistle runs away...but not really!
Wonder if she'd mind if I got touchy-feely?
If with this poetry I fail to woo,
I'll come up with something more creative to do!


*rubs paws together* Mmm, thistles.

Comments

[laurelwood.livejournal.com]

I am such a sniveling wuss- I got through precisely two of those blog entries and then I had to run away screaming and read some nice "Anne of Green Gables" to reset my prude-o-meter. (Maybe I'm not a prude so much as just easily made queasy by the thought of nether-region pain. Hmm.)

Very interesting, though. And I think you ought to write milkthistle a nice limerick next! :)

[thistle-chaser.livejournal.com]

Don't feel bad. I'm kink-positive, and I still went 'EEEK! Mommy, what is that man doing to that woman?!' after reading a couple. And while it was interesting/different, I never did finish reading the whole thing.

And I think you ought to write milkthistle a nice limerick next! :)

isiscolo beat me to it! Here (http://www.livejournal.com/users/thistle_chaser/241443.html?thread=594723#t594723).

[gmth.livejournal.com]

Yay! Thanks for the link! :-) You rule!

[thistle-chaser.livejournal.com]

Welcome!

[loup_noir]

Ok. Well, wasn't that special? Not my cup of coffee, but whatever does it for her.

[thistle-chaser.livejournal.com]

Yeah. Pain isn't my thing, but to each their own.

[aretina.livejournal.com]

Maybe I'm just ignorant, but from the language she uses in the first three entries, I'd say this Master/slave relationship is far too close to Perpetrator/abused. It's not the physical that bothers me-- in a trusting relationship, there's no telling what I might let someone do to me. But, I would never consider it part of a mutually respectful healthy relationship (which she claims it is) for someone to drive dangerously, yell and belittle me, and then manipulatively ignore me for the rest of the evening when I dare to express my displeasure, following with an apology only in the morning-- typical pattern of abuse. She even uses the word "abuse" at least twice in the first three entries alone, and she tells us that a weekend without him is lovely. She may think she's saying something different, but that's the message that seems to be shining through.

[aretina.livejournal.com]

Of course, I could be missing the point, that clearly she is satisfied being treated in this way, but I can't help but imagine the children. Ie, they see their father insulting and yelling at their mother, then ignoring her until she craves his attention and his forgiveness the next day-- how can they have a context for that? "Oh, Dad's not really being mean to mom. I mean, he is, but that's what she wants." Ok, I'll shut up now. (But the DANGEROUS DRIVING... no, really, shutting up now.)

[thistle-chaser.livejournal.com]

As I understand it, they don't let their kids see any of this. To their family and their non-kink friends, they're just a normal married couple.

And I can't disagree that that's abuse. He hurts her and belittles her and all that... but as you noted, she wants that. I squick and squirm at the thought of some guy putting needles through my nipples, but some people like that, so what the hey. So long as the two are consenting adults, who am I to say 'Ew! That's sick! Stop it!'?

Thanks for the comment!

[aretina.livejournal.com]

Ah, the only problem being that kids don't miss a single thing. Still, as long as she considers herself safe and happy and her children to the best of her knowledge too, live and let live.